probably one of the weirdest and maybe worst parts of sending your heart in the mail (sharing your zines) is when one of your recipients takes it up on themselves to share it with every single person in their lives. I love that you think it's cool but this is giving me a lot of anxiety
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sneekrealm
3 days ago
the trip log tugging at my heart a bit while its still moving along from an interpersonal feelings-something too... "I don't want to pursue anything that makes me feel like I need to change who I am to make it work." facts (and yet, still the semifresh hurt in my case)
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crunchweb
1 week ago
@oldhighwaynotes thank you! I like the idea behind your site, who knew there was so much highway lore?? @iderskye I will! I have a few pages left to build then I'll post it :)
one thing about leaving social media but still having the desires and behaviors behind social media use is that no other site that you use updates fast enough. what do you mean you can't entertain me and give me dopamine hits every 2 seconds? what do you mean I actually have to entertain myself? what do you mean it's okay to be bored??? 😂
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win1999
2 weeks ago
I found that empty space felt incredibly uncomfortable at first. Recognizing the grip that it has on us is an important step. Some particularly worthwhile endeavors to help fill the space are physical, slow-paced things (going for a long walk, writing in a journal, reading a book, drawing, gardening). Anything where the feedback loop takes much more time than 2 seconds :)
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crunchweb
2 weeks ago
@win1999 - yes thank you! sometimes I forget I just need to fill the space with something else. I did take a walk today although it was hot AF so I didn't like it, but that's still better than doing stuff I don't like on social media. @skep - #dobetter I'm struggling here. it's hot outside.
hi everyone, i have finally scanned and uploaded my imposter syndrome minizine - it is a good pocket size for carrying around & remembering.
https://zinetherapy.neocities.org/library/downloads/dealwithit-impostersyndrome.png
there are links for folding minizines here: https://zinetherapy.neocities.org/library/about
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crunchweb
3 weeks ago
Remember that although imposter syndrome is an individual feeling it is also a byproduct of systemic factors like professional spaces built for other demographics, cultures that reward overproduction, and the monetization of self-expression. You can develop chronic stress if you don't learn to deal with it.
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sclptures
3 weeks ago
"mess up a little to remind yourself it's not a big deal" is my favourite advice, i feel like it would work for me even though i've never tried it
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oopsiedoodle
3 weeks ago
I also recently gorged at a Korean hotpot place. Probably ate more meat in that one meal than I had in the rest of the month combined. Delicious
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web design struggles: i gave up and decided to make the mobile view for my new/old personal site different from desktop because it's too much work to figure out but now i wonder if i prefer that one more
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I would like to work on my new layout today but my cat says it's actually the best time in the whole universe for us to sit on the couch together and me not to use my hands.
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especially when they promise those people that you will start sending. sucks that you got yourself into that situation, I'm not raising my budget for your friends though.
I know you can't really control what happens to stuff after you send it to someone so it's not really a huge problem, but it still makes me feel very vulnerable and weird. like I only send 15 of them out, it's not like I'm mass producing and sharing with the world.
I think probably the main problem is promising my energy to other people without asking me first though
maybe I'll start telling people that I'm happy to send to new people when it's a trade. force people to make zines.
"force people to make zines." yesssssss
^after that comment of mine i immediately proceeded to scrawl up two miniscule zines from tiny scrap papers while at work, from stray thoughts of mine. by all means force ppl to make zines !!!!
@sneekrealm ohh maybe I need to redistribute some of this frustration into zines!!!
wait, if they want to share they are the ones that have to make copies of their copy
@pirahxcx omg you just changed my life forever